Cuddle Deliveries
The Why
I'm naturally contrarian and hate being told what to do... except when I fall into a spiral of overthinking, and being given something to do helps me focus.
I also like helping and being useful and taking care of folx.
Why is tea serving considered a submissive act? What if it was a Domme ordering you to drink tea with honey so your throat will get better? But I digress. The list here isn't necessarily submissive.
Oh come on! It doesn't have to be deep or anything!
...Or, you know, this is just Shit I Like Doing. I try to be a little tongue-in-cheek here but I may have gone overboard. Whoops.
The Process
If I know you, a verbal or written request is enough. If I don't, well. Fix that first. (If we're already friends and/or more, you don't have to be so formal.) Requests can also be revoked at any time, by either party.
And as with any interaction, D/s or otherwise... respect goes both ways, yo. "No" means "No" and consent should be ongoing. Heed all hard limits. Basic things.
Check
Said requests may be executed depending on comfort level, mood, closeness to requester, and whether a bribe with an iced dirty chai latte and being addressed as "Captain" is successful.
The List
I also enjoy putting all the things I like to do in a tidy little list. Here it is!
Known Quirks/Features/Bugs
Feedback is greatly appreciated for the calibration of bites, scritches, tackles, and physical contact of that sort!
Prone to Attacks of Shyness and could be slow to initialize.
Kisses have a tendency to short me out. :)
Categories
1. To Combat Touch-Starvingness (can overlap with the second category)
- back rubs
- co-napping
- cuddles
- foot rubs
- kisses
- nibbles, bites, and attempts at hard bites
- nose kisses
- nuzzles
- petting
- poking you with my foot
- random little touches that say, "you matter"
- scritches
- shoving your face into my cleavage
- slapping
- snuggles
- tackling (yes, seriously)
- tapping
- tummy rubs
2. Potential Sensual/Sexy (can overlap with the first category, technically)
- again, biting of varying strengths
- cuddle-turned-fucking
- making out
- oral, generally
- picking a fight ;)
- poking with my dick
- putting my pussy on you
3. Fetch Quests & Chores ("Just Virgo Things" I enjoy doing) (...but if I'm cleaning your bathroom you may have to bribe me ;) )
- a drink, not necessarily alcoholic
- or a dessert
- and stealing the last bite of said dessert
- assist (hold up a light, etc.)
- bartending?
- cleaning
- errands/fetching, especially burgers
- organizing
- pick out an outfit for you
- proofreading
4. Misc. Fun/Acts of Caring (Zombieland Rule #32: Enjoy the little things.)
- a blind bag of a toy of your choice
- banana milk
- bubble baths
- causing a scene for you, when you're too upset or stressed
- cheer/cheering
- hype up yo' thang
- knock something over, for comedic or cathartic effect
- Netflix (or Hulu, or...)
- pillows, etc. for a pillow fort
- read out loud to you
- reminders to take care of yourself (stay hydrated!)
- spam positive things of your choice, ex. cute stuff
Play This Upon My Arrival
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0NqZRjvdUA][Delivery!]