About Me

Sulu smiling as he pulls Uhura toward him.

Sulu: "I'll protect you, fair maiden!"

Uhura: "Sorry, neither."

Star Trek

An almost-40 year old kinkster exploring what I like and how I play, as well as process how I navigate the kink scene as a Black non-binary person.

I enjoy being pampered as a pet and indulge in hedonistic activities. I like trying new things (sometimes twice, just to be sure), and evolving, and having fun while doing so.

Currently embracing being a Switch: how to be a better sub, and stepping into my power as a Dom(me).

Yes, I am very political. I don't have the option or the privilege to not be so.

No one expects a soft hedgehog, and no one expects softness to have bite.

You know how some animals are popular among kinksters? There's always puppies, kitties, foxes, even cows... but I like hedgehogs.

Hedge -hog +bae = Hedgebae!

Hedge because well, I like being in some woods. Can't even keep bamboo alive, though... I'll just enjoy the leaves.

Bae is a term of endearment in African American Vernacular English.